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		<title>By: Julia</title>
		<link>http://www.fabricegrinda.com/happiness/happiness-and-the-dangers-of-belief-in-the-written-word/comment-page-1/#comment-3613</link>
		<dc:creator>Julia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 May 2007 06:36:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bonjour Fabrice,

Well, I&#039;m not an expert, but I do have a blog (3for365.com), which I invite you to visit. 

I really like your site and this post. May I link it? Your entrepreneurial spirit is positively infectious!

Yours in creativity,
Julia</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bonjour Fabrice,</p>
<p>Well, I&#8217;m not an expert, but I do have a blog (3for365.com), which I invite you to visit. </p>
<p>I really like your site and this post. May I link it? Your entrepreneurial spirit is positively infectious!</p>
<p>Yours in creativity,<br />
Julia</p>
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		<title>By: Michelle Hope</title>
		<link>http://www.fabricegrinda.com/happiness/happiness-and-the-dangers-of-belief-in-the-written-word/comment-page-1/#comment-3385</link>
		<dc:creator>Michelle Hope</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Mar 2007 16:33:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Fabrice.

I just found your site, and I&#039;m looking forward to getting to know you. I have done a lot of reading and practicing on the topic of happiness, and I&#039;d like to share with you a bit of what I&#039;ve written:

&lt;a href=&quot;http://onbulimia.blogs.com/journeys/2007/03/happiness_vs_pl.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Happiness vs. Pleasure&lt;/a&gt;

&lt;a href=&quot;http://onbulimia.blogs.com/journeys/2007/03/what_is_happine.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;What is Happiness to me?&lt;/a&gt;

Respectfully,
Michelle Hope</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Fabrice.</p>
<p>I just found your site, and I&#8217;m looking forward to getting to know you. I have done a lot of reading and practicing on the topic of happiness, and I&#8217;d like to share with you a bit of what I&#8217;ve written:</p>
<p><a href="http://onbulimia.blogs.com/journeys/2007/03/happiness_vs_pl.html" rel="nofollow">Happiness vs. Pleasure</a></p>
<p><a href="http://onbulimia.blogs.com/journeys/2007/03/what_is_happine.html" rel="nofollow">What is Happiness to me?</a></p>
<p>Respectfully,<br />
Michelle Hope</p>
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		<title>By: Arnold</title>
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		<dc:creator>Arnold</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Mar 2007 09:15:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Fabrice,
Happiness can be found in little things.
Just some nice words that my recently re-discovered girlfriend (after 34 years!)from the States sent to me after I had sent her a cd that I recorded for her;

it&#039;s music that stirs my heart, 
it&#039;s music that makes me feel whole, 
it&#039;s music that lets me dance, 
it&#039;s music that speaks when words cannot.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Fabrice,<br />
Happiness can be found in little things.<br />
Just some nice words that my recently re-discovered girlfriend (after 34 years!)from the States sent to me after I had sent her a cd that I recorded for her;</p>
<p>it&#8217;s music that stirs my heart,<br />
it&#8217;s music that makes me feel whole,<br />
it&#8217;s music that lets me dance,<br />
it&#8217;s music that speaks when words cannot.</p>
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		<title>By: Marie de P.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marie de P.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2007 21:56:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Fabrice,

I&#039;m a newcomer here, and I must say I had a very, very good time reading you. I must aknowledge I&#039;ve always felt a bit sceptic about &quot;happiness theorization&quot;, perhaps due to a quite conceited and somehow romantic notion that happiness derived from some kind of magic you could NOT make theories about. If I persist in thinking that life must be considered on a single day basis, as everything can stop anytime for any of us, I tend to believe now that single days can make a whole, when intense moments combine with some kind of serenity. I&#039;m not getting any better on the romantic front, though :o)

So thanx for this highly humanistic, humble and clever vision. And, er, well yes, it&#039;s a compliment :o)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fabrice,</p>
<p>I&#8217;m a newcomer here, and I must say I had a very, very good time reading you. I must aknowledge I&#8217;ve always felt a bit sceptic about &#8220;happiness theorization&#8221;, perhaps due to a quite conceited and somehow romantic notion that happiness derived from some kind of magic you could NOT make theories about. If I persist in thinking that life must be considered on a single day basis, as everything can stop anytime for any of us, I tend to believe now that single days can make a whole, when intense moments combine with some kind of serenity. I&#8217;m not getting any better on the romantic front, though :o)</p>
<p>So thanx for this highly humanistic, humble and clever vision. And, er, well yes, it&#8217;s a compliment :o)</p>
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		<title>By: Cristian B</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cristian B</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Mar 2007 19:37:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As Niestzche says, happiness is the feeling that power is increasing and the will is yielding to that sense of power, that resistance is overcome.  In Christianity, a life lived in constant suffering brings,(in theory of course), ultimate happiness upon death.  I think that immediate happiness, or elation, comes from different sources, a successful business, great sex, a good movie, a compliment from someone one admires (and even more so when the compliment comes from a rival).

Dopaminergic receptors in the brain respond in beautiful unison to all these impulses.  In essence, dopamine, serotonin and norepinephrine are the chemicals that make us happy.  Nevertheless, as in any brain system, or life in general, happiness can develop a sort of plateau, in which more of that reward is needed to achieve the same degree of satisfaction.  This is of course, varies tremendously between individuals.  Someone with an addictive personality will be more likely, to develop an addiction to a primer (drugs, sex, extreme sports), that will bring about the same feeling of euphoria.

There was an interesting article I read a few years ago in the New York Times about a study that followed levels of happiness over a period of 2 years.  The subjects were people who recently had won the lottery, people who had just lost their vision or limbs due to an accident.  Initial levels of happiness were very different.  Obviously the people who lost function were very sad at the beginning of the study and people who won the lottery were very happy.  However, after 6 months, amazingly, the levels of reported happiness of both groups had become almost the same.  People who lost function had learned to cope and appreciate life again, and those who won the lottery, had lost that initial sense of happiness quite precipitously.

For me, watching the whole first season of 24 in one day has made me very, very happy!  lol</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As Niestzche says, happiness is the feeling that power is increasing and the will is yielding to that sense of power, that resistance is overcome.  In Christianity, a life lived in constant suffering brings,(in theory of course), ultimate happiness upon death.  I think that immediate happiness, or elation, comes from different sources, a successful business, great sex, a good movie, a compliment from someone one admires (and even more so when the compliment comes from a rival).</p>
<p>Dopaminergic receptors in the brain respond in beautiful unison to all these impulses.  In essence, dopamine, serotonin and norepinephrine are the chemicals that make us happy.  Nevertheless, as in any brain system, or life in general, happiness can develop a sort of plateau, in which more of that reward is needed to achieve the same degree of satisfaction.  This is of course, varies tremendously between individuals.  Someone with an addictive personality will be more likely, to develop an addiction to a primer (drugs, sex, extreme sports), that will bring about the same feeling of euphoria.</p>
<p>There was an interesting article I read a few years ago in the New York Times about a study that followed levels of happiness over a period of 2 years.  The subjects were people who recently had won the lottery, people who had just lost their vision or limbs due to an accident.  Initial levels of happiness were very different.  Obviously the people who lost function were very sad at the beginning of the study and people who won the lottery were very happy.  However, after 6 months, amazingly, the levels of reported happiness of both groups had become almost the same.  People who lost function had learned to cope and appreciate life again, and those who won the lottery, had lost that initial sense of happiness quite precipitously.</p>
<p>For me, watching the whole first season of 24 in one day has made me very, very happy!  lol</p>
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		<title>By: Fabrice Grinda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fabrice Grinda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2007 16:52:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You and Salvador Dali :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You and Salvador Dali :)</p>
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		<title>By: Damion Hankejh</title>
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		<dc:creator>Damion Hankejh</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2007 16:26:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I _am_ drugs. How can I not be happy?  ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I _am_ drugs. How can I not be happy?  ;)</p>
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		<title>By: Fabrice Grinda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fabrice Grinda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Mar 2007 15:54:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Aaaaarghhh!
My ego just got so big it&#039;s pushing me out of the room!
Trying to fight it...
It&#039;s really really tough...
I am suffocating...
Must get secret weapon!
There deflated!
It was close!
I almost died!

Giving me compliments will get you anything :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aaaaarghhh!<br />
My ego just got so big it&#8217;s pushing me out of the room!<br />
Trying to fight it&#8230;<br />
It&#8217;s really really tough&#8230;<br />
I am suffocating&#8230;<br />
Must get secret weapon!<br />
There deflated!<br />
It was close!<br />
I almost died!</p>
<p>Giving me compliments will get you anything :)</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Mar 2007 15:49:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>But Fabrice, you *are* an international expert on happiness.  As all of us reading this can attest, you are remarkably successful at causing yourself to be - and to remain in a state of - happiness.  That may not make you an expert in the I-have-a-PhD-in-this-subject sense but should qualify you as a guru in the field.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>But Fabrice, you *are* an international expert on happiness.  As all of us reading this can attest, you are remarkably successful at causing yourself to be &#8211; and to remain in a state of &#8211; happiness.  That may not make you an expert in the I-have-a-PhD-in-this-subject sense but should qualify you as a guru in the field.</p>
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